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الداء والدواء لابن القيم The Desease and the cure by Ibn Al-Qayyim rahimahullah Electronic copy ⤵️ https://t.me/khawaaaaatir/153 Listen along ⤵️ https://t.me/khawaaaaatir/152 Commentary on the book ⤵️ https://t.me/khawaaaaatir/154

How You Treat Others Is How Allah Treats You Ibn Al-Qayyim (may Allah have mercy on him) said: "من عفا عفا الله عنه، ومن سامح أخاه في إساءته إليه سامحه الله في إساءته، ومن أغضى وتجاوز تجاوز اللهُ عنه، ومن استقصىٰ استقصىٰ اللهُ عليه. فالله عزّ وجلّ يُعامِلُ العبدَ في ذنوبه بمثل ما يعامِلُ به العبدُ النَّاسَ في ذنوبهم." “Whoever forgives, Allah will forgive him. Whoever excuses his brother for wronging him, Allah…

Avoid marrying a woman who is guided by her impulses & desires.

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Seeing Blessings in Trials: A Mindset for Raising a Disabled Child Sheikh Faisal Al-Hashihdi writes: All praise is due to Allah. He blessed me with a son, and I named him Abdush-Shakoor. When I saw that he was born blind, I said, “To Allah we belong and to Him we return,” and I praised Allah. Then I spoke to myself, saying: We live in a time full of visual temptations, where hearts are easily drawn to what they…

Where's everyone gone? — A revert's story The most memorable Ramaḍhān I ever experienced was my first one after embracing Islam 13 years ago. I took my Shahādah the night before Ramaḍhān, and the very next day, I began fasting. Despite it being my first time, fasting came surprisingly easy—Alḥamdulillāh. The warmth and hospitality of the brothers were incredible. They welcomed me with open arms, and I was…

From the Masjid Sahabah Project May Allah reward every mother, wife, sister, and daughter among us with the best reward. They are the ones who, during the month of fasting, carry burdens that would weigh down even the strong. They spend the whole month serving at home, wanting us to fast in comfort and ease. They cook at midnight while everyone sleeps, and again in the afternoon until evening. Their wish is…

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The Value of True Brotherhood Sheikh Sulayman Ar-Ruhayli hafidhahullah said: Part of good companionship is that a person pays attention to the feelings and situations of their friends, keeps their hearts at ease, and avoids anything that could harm the friendship. So, brothers, it is good manners that if you do something that might be misunderstood, you should explain it to your friends. If you do something for…

What Do You Gain If Your Child Is Ruined Because of Your Duʿā? Sheikh 'Abdurrazaq Al-Badr hafidhahullah says: A soldier who was assigned to stand near the Black Stone [relates the following story]. May Allah reward him for what he did and bless his actions. What he did was truly remarkable. He had just started working in that place. He said, “I heard the sound of intense crying. The crying caught my attention, so…

True Knowledge vs. Misunderstanding It is narrated that a faqeeh once passed along a road and saw a man stealing an apple and then giving it away in charity. The faqeeh asked him, “Why did you steal it? I thought you might have been hungry.” The man replied—without knowing that he was speaking to a faqeeh—“No, I am trading with my Lord.” The faqeeh said, “How is that?” The man explained, “I stole it, so one bad…

Time to Call It Quits Sheikh Uthaymin rahimahullah said: "Ramadhan is an opportunity for those who are determined and want to free themselves from this harmful, evil smoking." [Majmoo‘ Al-Fataawa, 19/203] Source: https://t.me/khawaaaaatir/66

Advice Regarding a Woman Who Gets Physical With Her Husband Question: What advice do you have regarding a wife who claims Salafiyyah: when she becomes angry she raises her hand against her husband, and when he becomes angry with her she says, “I was joking with you.” Sheikh Abdulhameed Az-Zu'kari: This is a foolish woman. Foolish women need discipline. It is not permissible for a woman to raise her hand against…

Tahajjud Prayers – Starting Tomorrow Night (In shā’ Allāh) 🕑 Time: 2 - 4:00 AM 🚪 Doors open: 1:45 AM 📖 Recitation: 2 Juz each night Suhoor options: 1️⃣ Bring your own food (feel free to bring extra to share) 2️⃣ We'll offer a light, simple suhoor at the masjid 3️⃣ Head home after prayer ▪️ Brothers only 📍 Baitul Ma’mur E2 0QY

Provide Her Needs Without Taking Her to the Market Question: Is it permissible for me to go with my wife to the market to buy her things? Sheikh Rashad Adh-Dhali'ee: Let her remain at home and you buy them for her. Allah, the Most High, says: “And remain in your homes.” So a woman is encouraged to remain in her home. What is the need to take her to the market? You should buy what she needs and take it to the…

A married man should not travel excessively It is authentically reported in a hadith that a woman said to the Messenger of Allah ﷺ: The Messenger of Allah ﷺ criticised Abū Jahm, saying: ((أَمَّا أَبُو جَهْمٍ فَلَا يَضَعُ عَصَاهُ عن عَاتِقِهِ)) “He does not put his staff down from his shoulder.” The phrase “he does not put his staff down from his shoulder” has been explained to mean that he travels a…

If this is what is said about taking knowledge from them, what about engaging in casual conversations? It is reported in Al-ʿIlal of Imam Ahmad, through the narration of Abdullah that... Abū Hāshim said: كَانُوا يَكْرَهُونَ الرِّوَايَةَ عَنِ النِّسَاءِ إِلَّا عَنْ أَزْوَاجِ النَّبِيِّ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ “They used to dislike narrating from women, except from the wives of the Prophet ﷺ.” Source:…

The Ghayrah of Hūr Al-ʿĪn At-Tirmidhī reported in his Sunan from Muʿādh ibn Jabal (may Allah be pleased with him), that the Prophet ﷺ who said: ((لا تؤذي امرأة زوجها في الدنيا، إلا قالت زوجته من الحور العين: لا تؤذيه، قاتلك الله، فإنما هو عندك دخيل، يوشك أن يفارقك إلينا)) “No woman harms her husband in this world except that his wife from the Hūr Al-ʿĪn says: ‘Do not harm him—may Allah deal with you—he is only a…

When the Heart Is Strong, the Body Follows Sheikh Abdurrazaq Al-Badr hafidhahullah said: Now there is an important matter related to prayer: regularly maintaining the five daily prayers in the houses of Allah (the masjids). This depends on the strength of the heart in honouring and valuing the prayer. The heart has strength, and because of that you may find the body weak, yet when the call to prayer is made, this…

Signs Of A Cheating Wife Disclaimer: These are only signs. A woman might show some of these signs for reasons other than cheating on her husband. She may be a decent, honourable, and good woman who simply has personal circumstances. However, they remain signs that people often notice when a wife cheats or falls into betrayal. When a wife cheats or falls into the trap of betrayal, it is very difficult for her to…